Picking up a woman is not just about the words you use, in fact they are not the most important thing. You need to lead a woman through the process of: wanting to talk to you, finding you interesting, and then feeling like she wants you physically. Sometimes it can happen in an instant, but usually it takes longer.
Most guys have one character all the way through a seduction. For a fun extravert, it will be the fun sociable guy. For most men, it will be “Mr Comfort”, the nice guy who might be interesting but isn’t especially …